What anal toy to get past "the bend"?

Never been interested in anal until recently, so have been training the anus with plugs and dildos. Unfortunately, after weeks of effort, the 8 incher still can't get past "the bend". Been told that it will eventually get there with enough practice, but can't use the dildos because it's hard enough to deal with the thickness. What's the best sex toy for this purpose? Something that's easy to insert so I can just focus on "the bend"?

by Anonymousreply 23July 18, 2023 12:06 AM

Is this closer to the truth?

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by Anonymousreply 1July 14, 2023 12:22 AM

Mr. Pence, will you please stop deluging us with your questions?

Especially since such disclosures are unseemly coming from a former Vice-President of the United States.

by Anonymousreply 2July 14, 2023 12:23 AM

Square peg toys has some long skinny snake like toys.

Am I the only one whose second sphincter is farther up than in drawings? Mine is about a finger's length away from the exterior sphincter. In anatomical drawings they act like the 2 sphincters are right next to each other. Or maybe what I'm feeling is not a sphincter?

by Anonymousreply 3July 14, 2023 12:24 AM

R3 I don't know if it's the sphincter. People say that it might be the sigmoid colon, but I would've thought it'd take more than 4 or 5 inches to get there?

by Anonymousreply 5July 14, 2023 12:31 AM

Call Roto Rooter and see what they use.

by Anonymousreply 6July 14, 2023 8:50 AM

I am not sure exactly what "the bend" is—some people say it's where the sigmoid colon starts, but I don't know. This is purely anecdotal, but in my experiences bottoming and using dildos, I have noticed that there is a natural curve in the rectum that I initially found really uncomfortable to have stimulated—but with enough experience and getting acclimated, that region (facing toward the front of the abdomen) was the key in terms of getting pleasure out of anal because it's where the prostate is. If I have a dick or a toy thrusting against that area, I get rock hard and can blow my load very easily without ever touching my dick. A good 6-7-inch dick or toy is the perfect length at hitting it for me.

by Anonymousreply 7July 14, 2023 9:19 AM

Never give up your dreams, OP.

by Anonymousreply 8July 14, 2023 10:16 AM

Do you have a telephone pole handy, OP? Sounds like you need to bring in the big guns.

by Anonymousreply 9July 14, 2023 10:21 AM

Fort Troff has got a lot to choose from. Their only focus is on toys for gay men.

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by Anonymousreply 10July 14, 2023 1:25 PM

Make sure to play this while you're working it in.

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by Anonymousreply 11July 14, 2023 2:55 PM

I used a sort of "snake" toy to try and get past the bend and ended up with a pool of dark thick blood coming out of my anus. Never tried again.

by Anonymousreply 12July 14, 2023 6:03 PM

Some of you lead unusual lives.

by Anonymousreply 13July 14, 2023 6:09 PM

so which position is best ? missionary with a curved dildo facing upwards right?

by Anonymousreply 14July 14, 2023 7:09 PM

Op can’t you find something more low brow to spend your time on?

by Anonymousreply 16July 16, 2023 4:52 PM

Yet I’m the person who gets criticized out here.

by Anonymousreply 17July 16, 2023 5:13 PM

Sorry, Greg, this thread is not about you; instead, we’re talking about another dildo.

by Anonymousreply 18July 17, 2023 12:30 PM

[quote] Sorry, Greg, this thread is not about you; instead, we’re talking about another dildo.

Got it.

by Anonymousreply 19July 17, 2023 1:49 PM

[quote] I mean the other dildo.

Yes, of course.

by Anonymousreply 21July 17, 2023 7:15 PM

Gurl you should find you a man who is under 8". 7 is still a nice size.

Cause there are hussies out there who can take a 9 incher without blinking and that's who you're up against 🙃

by Anonymousreply 23July 18, 2023 12:06 AM

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