Why isn't Katharine Hepburn a gay icon?

Just curious to know why she never became one.

Let's discuss...

by Anonymousreply 57July 27, 2022 8:47 PM

lesbian faghags rarely do an icon make...

she was too stately rather than tragically insane and just broken

by Anonymousreply 1July 25, 2022 3:51 AM

She certainly was to some gays I have known.

by Anonymousreply 2July 25, 2022 4:01 AM

Too prudish and had a terrible voice.

by Anonymousreply 3July 25, 2022 4:05 AM

What makes you think she isn't?

Her Eleanor in The Lion in Winter is alone enough to make her a gay icon.

by Anonymousreply 4July 25, 2022 4:07 AM

Her reputation as a gay icon is shaky at best.

by Anonymousreply 5July 25, 2022 4:09 AM

She overcame her challenges and without fuss

by Anonymousreply 6July 25, 2022 4:10 AM

Um…SUDDENLY LAST SUMMER?!?!

Hello?!?!?!?!?!

by Anonymousreply 7July 25, 2022 4:11 AM

She was mean and a closeted lez. What’s to like?

by Anonymousreply 8July 25, 2022 4:11 AM

Lots of great video links spanning her entire career in this article

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by Anonymousreply 9July 25, 2022 4:12 AM

Gay? Whatever do you mean?

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by Anonymousreply 10July 25, 2022 4:34 AM

I forget how many years ago it was but I guess it was pre-VCRs. Guy I knew went to every screening of every Kate Hepburn film . being shown in chronological order at some NYC movie house. The retrospecive included most of her films. It didn't seem out of the ordinary that he, a young, gay man, would do this.

by Anonymousreply 11July 25, 2022 4:35 AM

Gay? It was the 40s, military chic was all the rage

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by Anonymousreply 12July 25, 2022 4:45 AM

Gay? It's the sideburns, isn't it?

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by Anonymousreply 13July 25, 2022 4:51 AM

What were her views on homosexuality?

by Anonymousreply 14July 25, 2022 3:13 PM

The calla lillies are in bloom.

by Anonymousreply 15July 25, 2022 4:33 PM

Op, you idiot, I could peel you like a pear and God himself would call it justice !

She is a gay icon.

by Anonymousreply 16July 25, 2022 7:54 PM

I have never heard of her being considered a gay icon before

by Anonymousreply 17July 26, 2022 10:43 PM

[quote]she was too stately rather than tragically insane and just broken

And she wasn't fabulous!

by Anonymousreply 18July 26, 2022 10:47 PM

We’d never make an icon of someone who put her feet on the furniture.

by Anonymousreply 19July 26, 2022 10:49 PM

Because lesbians get to name their own icons and they are not claiming this particular "hide in plain sight and lie like carpet that doesn't match the drapes" bitch.

Good for them.

by Anonymousreply 21July 26, 2022 11:00 PM

[uqote] What makes you think she isn't? Her Eleanor in The Lion in Winter is alone enough to make her a gay icon. —"I'd hang you from the nipples, but you'd shock the children.."

"We rode bare-breasted in the desert. I got wind burn, but the troops were dazzled!"

by Anonymousreply 22July 26, 2022 11:00 PM

Did she have Parkinson’s disease? Late in her life she shook and her voice quivered to the point of being unbearable to watch.

by Anonymousreply 23July 26, 2022 11:27 PM

If someone is mimicked repeatedly by Mario Cantone in his act, then she's a huge gay icon.

Hepburn is.

The matter is settled.

by Anonymousreply 24July 26, 2022 11:30 PM

She's more of a lez icon, but maybe third tier.

by Anonymousreply 25July 26, 2022 11:30 PM

No, she didn't, as she states in the TV show she did (All About Me, or something). "And no, I don't have Parkinson's - I just shake". I think she may have said it was inherited.

by Anonymousreply 26July 27, 2022 6:08 AM

I remember going to see Adam's Rib in a theater in the 80s and when the credits came on she got cheers. Just her. And I suspect a few of those were from the abundant number of gays in the audience.

by Anonymousreply 27July 27, 2022 6:11 AM

Just because people made fun of her does not mean she is a gay icon. Most people today have never heard of her.

by Anonymousreply 28July 27, 2022 6:27 AM

[quote]Did she have Parkinson’s disease?

No, she had something called "essential tremor". It's not as well known as Parkinson's, but is far more common. It is also nowhere near as debilitating as Parkinson's.

by Anonymousreply 29July 27, 2022 6:29 AM

Joan Crawford is a gay icon but even though she's grown on me a little I never was that interested in her, or was a fan. But I always liked Hepburn and have seen some of her movies many times. I suspect there are other people like me out there.

by Anonymousreply 30July 27, 2022 6:42 AM

[quote]R5 Her reputation as a gay icon is shaky at best.

She’s a lesbian icon. So that makes her a close neighbor.

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by Anonymousreply 32July 27, 2022 6:54 AM

r29 yes, these days most people confuse an essential tremor with drug abuse or psychatric medication.

"essential tremors" can be a bit of a mystery... even now no one knows exactly where they come from.

in some cases, they appear genetic

but they also appear in trauma cases from severe to mild. . . and often childhood related. which means it could be practically anything... but most often associated with head traumas, higher numbers with direct impact to the forehead. . . so in younger children, especially those lacking motor function it's tends to be perceived as normal.... it doesn't tend to be recognized as a problem until they start to learn to write. . . that's where it's more frequently discovered.

in Kat's case, it likely also explains the quiver in her voice. . .

incidentally, some people can purr in a way that other people can't do... by learning to manipulate this tremor. It can apply to singing as well but then it relies heavily on head voice to manipulate.

It's so unrecognized abecause even many doctors are ignorant of it. Some even will profess it doesn't exist because an essential tremor is not temporary and often not isolated to one part of the body, it's often a full body constant tremor even down to the eyeballs and tongue. It's just not always as visible unless one is specifically looking for it and yes, it does become more apparent with age and illness. . . the greater someone with it tries to be still it, the more aggressive it shows.

medication wise.. it's usually treated with downers.

physical therapy.. the recommendation is learn to play a stringed instrument or in this age, play video games and text all day long.

by Anonymousreply 33July 27, 2022 6:54 AM

R33 very interesting, but I think you could use some downers.

by Anonymousreply 34July 27, 2022 7:02 AM

She's a salt water dyke. What's to like?

by Anonymousreply 35July 27, 2022 7:08 AM

r34 I'd have to od to reach that point. I suppose there is ulrasound treatment but that has more than a few side effects of its own.

I just found it interesting...

mind fired off.

Really, her iconic voice, that drag queens and dana carvey loves to parody, is likely the result having this condition....

it's surprising more lesbians didn't love this human vibrator...

by Anonymousreply 36July 27, 2022 7:10 AM

Why are any women considered gay male icons?

by Anonymousreply 37July 27, 2022 7:11 AM

Why is any woman a gay icon, if gays like men? That's the real question here. I couldn't care less about women and I find bizarre how much time DLers spend talking about the beauty of women.

by Anonymousreply 38July 27, 2022 7:13 AM

That was one butchy dyke!

by Anonymousreply 39July 27, 2022 7:14 AM

The Philadelphia Story alone makes her a gay icon.

by Anonymousreply 41July 27, 2022 7:19 AM

[quote]R38 Why is any woman a gay icon, if gays like men? That's the real question here. I couldn't care less about women

Eh, men are often fairly boring, out of the sack. Usually emotionally stunted, compared to women.

I’m much closer to my sister than my brother, for instance.

by Anonymousreply 42July 27, 2022 7:23 AM

Uh, who says she isn't?

Many a queeny/theatrical gay man of a certain age has dramatically stated at some point, usually in spring, "The Calla Lillies are in bloom again....Such a strange flower suitable to any occasion...."

by Anonymousreply 43July 27, 2022 7:28 AM

Completely misogynistic gay men are so weird and creepy.

I avoid them if at possible.

Why the fuck would you want to only hang around gay men all the time?

Shudders.

by Anonymousreply 44July 27, 2022 7:30 AM

You don't hang out with many men, do you R42? I guess you answered my question. My straight male friends and my brothers are very interesting and I'd rather spend time with them than with heir stupid girlfriends and wives with whom I have nothing in common. I guess it takes a certain type of gay to relate to women and I'm not that kind of gay. I have one sister who I love but I have nothing in common with her.

by Anonymousreply 45July 27, 2022 7:30 AM

What do you want, a parade?

by Anonymousreply 46July 27, 2022 7:35 AM

[quote] Why the fuck would you want to only hang around gay men all the time?

Who's saying to hang out with gay men only? Most men prefer the company of other men, that's the number one complaint women have about their partners. Most women also prefer their female peers too.

I hang out with my brothers and my straight, gay and bisexual friends and some lesbians. Why the fuck would I want to hang around women whom I have nothing in common with? I find gay men that only hang around women to be the creepy ones, and I'm not alone. If your fine being a gay pet, by all means go wag your tail to them.

by Anonymousreply 48July 27, 2022 7:43 AM

R42 when men show emotions, women call them fags. So, why do most gay men place so much significance crowning women as gay male icons?

R44 you are the same type who call gay men misogynistic for not being attracted to women, for not sucking their vagina, and for not fucking them. I don't hate women, but I'm not into worshipping them because anything past friendship is entering bisexual territory, and I'm not bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 49July 27, 2022 7:51 AM

Who said I was a "gay pet"? I certainly didn't.

Socially, I like men and I like women or at least nice, intelligent, liberal, probably arty men and women.

(Frankly, you don't sound like one of those... r48...you sound pretty dire actually.)

I'm not the one shunning the company of any one gender because "I have nothing in common with them". Or, in your case, with straight women because for some reason you feel you're better than they are.

Creepy.

Well, except for the assumption you both like cock.

by Anonymousreply 50July 27, 2022 7:59 AM

Where did I say or imply that I find myself better than women? I said I don't hang with them because I don't have many things in common with them. Most men don't, and that's why women go after effeminate gay men such as yourself, I'm assuming, because you worship them and talk about them way more than any straight men ever will.

by Anonymousreply 51July 27, 2022 8:15 AM

R36, I was just poking fun, as your post had a lot of vigor in it. I don't know much about her, but what you wrote was truly interesting. I've been meaning to watch more of her films. You may have just inspired me to finally do that.

by Anonymousreply 52July 27, 2022 8:15 AM

R50 is typing bullshit that you never stated R51, to make out like you are a woman hater. They always do this because they can't understand that you can be respectful to women as a gay man without worshiping them and without licking their vagina.

by Anonymousreply 53July 27, 2022 8:18 AM

Because her core stans from her heyday are all dead.

by Anonymousreply 54July 27, 2022 8:22 AM

Who are some of the actresses who are gay icons from that era, anyway? Judy Garland (much younger, but made movies at the same time as KH), Bette Davis, Joan Crawford, Tallulah...who else? Lucille Ball? I'm sure I'm forgetting a few. But there don't seem to be many. Ethel Merman?

by Anonymousreply 56July 27, 2022 5:22 PM

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