I see it all the time, if he's in a relationship with a guy, at the very least, he will have to be his equal in looks. In contrast, hotness is not the main criteria if you want to be his girl. My best friend, who is an actor, is in this exact situation. I introduced him to several stable, quality guys, but they weren't "in his league." He is now engaged to a woman he met at work. She's chubby cute with a good personality, but you can tell she'll be totally frumpy in the next few years. What gives?
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 74 | September 24, 2018 11:33 PM |
Right, and your point is . . . ?
| by Anonymous | reply 1 | December 17, 2017 2:22 AM |
Maybe he is into chubby women but not chubby men. Just because he likes certain things in one sex does not mean he wants the same thing or is even attracted to the same things in the other sex. For example: just because a bi person is into uber femme women doesn't mean he will also be attracted to very feminine men. I know someone that only dates butch chicks when she gets with women but doesn't care for very masculine men and go for more androgynous type men, but would never go for the women equivalent of those guys she dates.
| by Anonymous | reply 2 | December 17, 2017 2:35 AM |
Perhaps some bi men cannot be as choosy as they would like when selecting a woman who is okay with his wants and needs?
| by Anonymous | reply 3 | December 17, 2017 2:36 AM |
That is true R3 there are many women that do not want to be with a man that is interested in other men, so she could be the best he can get under the circumstances.
| by Anonymous | reply 4 | December 17, 2017 2:44 AM |
it could be that he's sexually attracted to men and romantically attracted to women?
| by Anonymous | reply 5 | December 17, 2017 2:44 AM |
That wouldn't involve dating, R5, that's more like some guy from a few floors down knocking on your door at night.
| by Anonymous | reply 6 | December 17, 2017 2:46 AM |
you're right! my bad! [r6]
| by Anonymous | reply 7 | December 17, 2017 2:50 AM |
OP, women don't base their relationships on looks like gay men do, so a man's looks aren't that big a factor in what women he can attract. Does this relly need explaining?
| by Anonymous | reply 8 | December 17, 2017 3:29 AM |
That's why gay men have so many mental health issues.
| by Anonymous | reply 9 | December 17, 2017 4:48 PM |
Bisexuals are the ultimate narcissists.
| by Anonymous | reply 10 | December 17, 2017 5:10 PM |
This entire post is a lie, I prefer my women to be pretty just the same as men. I highly doubt you've tracked bisexual activity to conclude this, if someone is dating somebody ugly it's probably because of convience and they have a nice personality
| by Anonymous | reply 11 | December 17, 2017 5:11 PM |
R11, just how bisexual are you? Do you share yourself equally between each sex, or do you just dabble with one?
| by Anonymous | reply 12 | December 17, 2017 5:23 PM |
Probably not that much sex involved with the female.
| by Anonymous | reply 13 | December 17, 2017 5:28 PM |
I suspect most bisexual men are in relationships with other men most if the time, which technically makes them gay.
| by Anonymous | reply 14 | December 17, 2017 5:44 PM |
r14, you suspect wrong. Studies show that close to 90% of bisexuals are in straight relationships. I never understood why gay men want to date bi men, who wants to be with someone that's into women? Anyway, that's their choice, but it's a turn off for me.
| by Anonymous | reply 15 | December 17, 2017 6:14 PM |
R12 Dating one gender more than the another doesn't make you any less bisexual, but I'm neutral with guys and girls
| by Anonymous | reply 16 | December 17, 2017 6:42 PM |
If you call those relationships, R15. They cheat on their “wives” or whatever with men. Lots and lots of men. I would think of twice because of disease. But, that’s me.
| by Anonymous | reply 17 | December 17, 2017 7:25 PM |
[Quote]I never understood why gay men want to date bi men, who wants to be with someone that's into women?
Because they are misogynists. Deep down inside, the only way that they can feel validation is to fantasize that they are stealing a good man away from stinky pussy female.
| by Anonymous | reply 18 | December 19, 2017 1:22 AM |
Because they know that manly men are into women. Homos are into just men and if you are a homo why would you want to be with one?
So you are in to a guy who bangs women, Now that's what I call a man! who then bangs you.
Now if he marries a woman out of his but league still wants to bang gorgeous men he's looking for a manager/agent/ and red carpet accessory. Wife as homemaker and social secretary.
In other a sleazy opportunistic miserly homo.
| by Anonymous | reply 19 | December 19, 2017 3:50 AM |
They date grateful women.
| by Anonymous | reply 20 | December 19, 2017 3:55 AM |
Could someone please provide a methamphetamine-to-English translation of R19's post?
| by Anonymous | reply 21 | December 19, 2017 4:36 AM |
Gotta block this thread as well What is going on?
| by Anonymous | reply 22 | December 19, 2017 7:31 AM |
Unless they are supermodels living the downtown phase of their life, bisexuality will reduce the guy’s value on the hot chick market. He’ll be somewhat marginalized.
| by Anonymous | reply 23 | December 19, 2017 9:56 AM |
It's not just bi guys... hot gay men only do hot men too. Male homosexuality is very competitive and I have always noticed this. Many straight guys that are hot also date less attractive women.
| by Anonymous | reply 24 | December 19, 2017 10:11 AM |
Bi men generally don’t “date” other men they have sex with them! In my experience, if a bi bloke is out he won’t find pretty model type women to date, as these women hate the idea of their man going with another man - as they cannot compete. They therefore never date out bi men. It’s the plainer women who don’t seem to care.
I have also known the strange breed of bisexual male who are ‘attractaction blind’. So they are thoroughly turned on by having sex with a man, but truly don’t find men attractive. They therefore go with any Male, no matter how damn ugly he is. These types of bi men tend to be bottoms and strangely are often the fit good looking younger male types who get a lot of female attention. Because they are expected to fulfil the dominanent role in the hetrosexual pairing, they are often highly submissive with men.
| by Anonymous | reply 25 | December 19, 2017 10:29 AM |
The bi guys that I have topped were often VERY good looking, built, sexy, hot, etc... Most had female partners who were somewhat understanding of their duality and were never at the same attractiveness level. My thoughts are that in the real world, women who would put up with this type of open relationship are often not the same attractiveness level as the sexy man that they have to share with other sex partners. I doubt that an "open" straight relationship would be any different really. Why would a female "8" or "9" put up with this? She doesn't have to obviously. That said, a female "5/6" might just put up with a bi or open hetero male "9/10" for obvious reasons. I hate the numbers game - but it is the only way to tell this story and make sense.. No Kate Moss/Christy Turlington/Naomi Campbell type woman would put up with this shit for long. They have their pick of the wealthiest, hottest straight men and do not have to..
| by Anonymous | reply 26 | December 19, 2017 10:30 AM |
She looks like a little self-satisfied mouse with her hands wrapped around a jaguar in the OP picture.
| by Anonymous | reply 27 | December 19, 2017 12:46 PM |
Get over yourself OP.
Remember you can't make a person gay.
You sound like a jealous teenage girl who can't get the guy no matter how hard she tries. So, you resort to insulting the woman who could !
| by Anonymous | reply 28 | December 19, 2017 12:54 PM |
R23 then how do you explain men who voluntarily come out as bi?
| by Anonymous | reply 29 | December 19, 2017 1:03 PM |
R29: They’re vain esp. when young? It’s about them an their sexuality not the exact rating of their women. (That would be a less hot, but more likely freak-friendly woman.) That girl in top pic is not as beautiful as her chris cornellish man, but she’s hot enough.
| by Anonymous | reply 32 | December 19, 2017 5:38 PM |
I notice that they tend to be with women with more masculine or mannish features. Is it because they want to be with someone that has traits from both genders?
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 33 | December 23, 2017 3:20 AM |
R25 I agree. They seem to like being the submissive one in their relationships with men and are rather vain.
In Lil Peep's case , he treated his rumored male lovers like Yung Goth, Lil Tracy and Makonnen, like friends with benefits and would leave them if he got bored or found someone better. His relationships with women were more serious.
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 34 | December 23, 2017 4:09 AM |
Salient point, R13.
Maybe many self-defined bisexual males could more correctly be called androphile. I’ve noticed the same trend with women; bisexual females often gravitate toward feminine-looking men & girls but won’t date or fuck a desirable butch woman, or a very masculine man (the kind DL love).
| by Anonymous | reply 35 | December 23, 2017 3:56 PM |
R34, I totally agree with you. The model (Willy Cartier) @ OP picture is a textbook example of your theory. He's introverted, but has his moments of cockiness and emotional meltdowns. The gf in the picture, also an artist, is about 12 years his senior. In this case, he obviously is with her because she doesn't mind if he sleeps with men.
In contrast, he seems to choose hyper masculine men, who take the lead in the relationship. Here he is with his hands wrapped around singer, Frank Ocean. You tell me who is the alpha in that relationship.
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 36 | December 23, 2017 6:05 PM |
Frank keeping a close eye on his jewel.
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 37 | December 23, 2017 6:10 PM |
Does r8 get the thread is about men, not women?
| by Anonymous | reply 39 | December 23, 2017 6:25 PM |
I see many bi men claim they're pickier with men than with women. In general, they're in the closet and repressing their gay side, so only very hot guys draw their attention.
Also, OP, when bi men are with men, they don't tend to say they miss pussy; they say they miss boobs.
| by Anonymous | reply 40 | December 23, 2017 6:28 PM |
Obviously because gay men are desperate for bi men in ways that straight women just aren't. Hot gay men would cut off a nut to get some attention from a guy who sleeps with women. Whereas the rare woman who will put up with that bisexual nonsense will do so only to keep a man that's supremely out of her league.
| by Anonymous | reply 41 | December 23, 2017 6:33 PM |
R41, ain't that the truth? Look at how the gay posters grovel over the most rancid piece of straight meat. Post after post about how to get a married man, it's pathetic.
| by Anonymous | reply 42 | December 23, 2017 6:45 PM |
To most of us, bisexual men might as well be gay.
| by Anonymous | reply 43 | December 23, 2017 6:47 PM |
[quote] Obviously because gay men are desperate for bi men in ways that straight women just aren't. Hot gay men would cut off a nut to get some attention from a guy who sleeps with women. Whereas the rare woman who will put up with that bisexual nonsense will do so only to keep a man that's supremely out of her league.
This.
Which is why most bi guys are still in the closet, dating women and hooking up with guys on Grindr on the DL
Which is also why OP is likely full of shit and is basing his "analysis" on the one out bi guy he's encountered.
| by Anonymous | reply 44 | December 23, 2017 7:04 PM |
R43 Sadly, that is how Tina Chow died. She had contracted HIV in late 1985 after having an affair with bisexual French aristocrat Kim D'Estainville who died of AIDS in January 1990.
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 45 | December 23, 2017 7:09 PM |
Women don’t have to be attractive to get men. The fact that they have a smelly stinktrap between their legs is enough. I don’t understand it, but that seems to be the reality.
| by Anonymous | reply 46 | December 23, 2017 7:21 PM |
[quote]Hot gay men would cut off a nut to get some attention from a guy who sleeps with women.
I’m the opposite. I’ve never been with a man who’s been with a woman, and would never want to.
| by Anonymous | reply 47 | December 23, 2017 7:23 PM |
That may be true R47 but just about every other gay guy knows that an easy way to get the hottest guys on Grindr or CraigsList before that is to say you're bi and you're girlfriend is out of town or some crap like that.
Quality level of guys responding goes up 50%
Sad but true
| by Anonymous | reply 48 | December 23, 2017 7:26 PM |
R46 Your father understood it very well though.
| by Anonymous | reply 49 | December 23, 2017 7:29 PM |
[quote]Quality level of guys responding goes up 50%
Can they really be “quality” if they’re responding to shit like that?
| by Anonymous | reply 50 | December 23, 2017 7:34 PM |
We're not marrying them Maiden Aunt R50
We're just fucking them.
So yeah, from a purely aesthetic perspective (which is all you generally want from that sort of hookup) then yes, they are quality.
| by Anonymous | reply 51 | December 23, 2017 7:35 PM |
I notice that bisexual men seem to have both masculine and feminine features. They are also generally better looking than both heterosexual and homosexual men. They have the kind of good looks that seem to attract a lot of female attention R25.
I think that one of the reasons that Lil Peep was the only member of GBC (Gothboiclique) who got signed was his popularity with his female fans.
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 52 | December 23, 2017 7:39 PM |
R45 That's so sad but goes to show there is a reason why heterosexal women stay away from bisexual men....too risky and also, it's primal. Women can smell it but some who are on birth control lose that natural sense. May she rest in peace.
| by Anonymous | reply 53 | December 23, 2017 7:47 PM |
R37 Lil Tracy was also rather possessive with Lil Peep.
Tracy attacked a male fan when the fan put his arm around Peep at 1:52.
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 54 | December 23, 2017 7:56 PM |
David Bowie, another example of a bisexual man with an androgynous or mannish looking wife
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 55 | December 23, 2017 8:06 PM |
R46 In comparison to you taking dick in your smelly asshole that produces shit, right?
| by Anonymous | reply 56 | December 24, 2017 3:41 AM |
r52 Can you give me an example of hot looking bi men? Only bi men I know are fat, blue haired, nerdy queers.
| by Anonymous | reply 57 | December 24, 2017 11:21 PM |
R57 I think Lil Peep, Billy Joe Armstrong and David Bowie were hot. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know that Lil Peep had a huge devoted female fan base especially compared to the rest of GBC (GothBoiClique) members.
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 58 | December 24, 2017 11:58 PM |
r58 They're alright looking, but they don't really stand out from the mass of gay and straight stars.
| by Anonymous | reply 59 | December 25, 2017 12:05 AM |
R59 I, personally, find them to be better looking than gay and straight celebrities. I find gay stars, like Matt Bomer, have too much of a gay face. Straight stars, like Jake Gyllenhaal, look rather ordinary looking.
| by Anonymous | reply 60 | December 25, 2017 12:30 AM |
R59, see photo of Willy Cartier @ OP post.
| by Anonymous | reply 61 | December 25, 2017 12:39 AM |
OP, because your friend is not actually a bisexual, he's a heterosexual narcissist
| by Anonymous | reply 62 | December 25, 2017 12:41 AM |
I'm Hugh Jackman and I concur
| by Anonymous | reply 63 | December 25, 2017 1:00 AM |
I guess I've had the opposite experience from everything else posted here. The few bi / married / have a GF guys I have hooked up with have been unusually hot. If they were gay, they probably wouldn't have given me the time of day. So, I've always viewed them as just wanting to get off with another guy and actually not caring that much about his looks vs. a gay guy who cares about looks far more. Some of them were size queens or total bottoms - which was a little surprising (since they were inevitably big, burly, masculine lumberjack types with wives & kids who wanted to then get fucked). But, in terms of thinking I'm good looking or not - they didn't seem to care that much. One or two seemed to think I was a lot better looking than I am - or maybe he was just trained from dating women to say it repeatedly.
This is all anecdotal... and I've seen what r41 talks about all the time which would explain the larger trend.
| by Anonymous | reply 64 | December 25, 2017 2:09 AM |
I too have had experiences much more in keeping with what R64 says. I am not bad looking at all, but most of the bi men that I have fucked or rimmed or exchanged blow jobs with were increadibly muscular, masculine and HOT. Hotter than I am by far. Many were a couple of years older than I (back when I was in my late teens and early twenties) and more recently I have had the pleasure of bi men who were a fare amount younger than I am. I can't think of one who wasn't hotter than Hell. What they did have in common was not being found on gay hookup aps (the few that were tended to be those grindr accounts that have no picture until they spam you 5 to 10 and then disappear as quickly after you have done the deed). Some of the hottest ones were found on CL - looking for a "massage" but ended up going far further at their request. Gorgeous men, good times..
| by Anonymous | reply 65 | December 25, 2017 9:46 AM |
Hugh, shouldn't you be giving you wife a foot massage right now?
| by Anonymous | reply 66 | December 25, 2017 6:39 PM |
Wait, so both Frank Ocean and the ex boyfriend Willy Carter are bi? And Carter was in a relationship with a woman whilst he was also dating Ocean? Is that all correct or did I read it wrong?
| by Anonymous | reply 67 | December 29, 2017 10:29 PM |
R67, Willy Cartier was with Aria Crescendo for a hot minute before he moved on to Frank Ocean, then Frank did the same thing to Willy. At least Frank penned a nice song about him before letting him go. She's the one who pursued him actually and wanted to take it to the next level.
This old thread will break it down for you.
Offsite Link| by Anonymous | reply 68 | December 29, 2017 11:04 PM |
If he's a hot actor and she's chubby, he probably figures that she'll be willing to support him until he had to the big time. Then he can dump her and get all the hot ass and big money he ever wanted.
And if she pops out a kid before the divorce, he can drag the kid onto red carpets for straight cred, and to avoid bringing his male dates!
| by Anonymous | reply 69 | December 29, 2017 11:40 PM |
Yet ANOTHER DL thread about bisexual men?!
| by Anonymous | reply 72 | September 24, 2018 7:16 PM |
R71 you really bumped a year old thread you dumb fucking bitroll?
| by Anonymous | reply 73 | September 24, 2018 8:10 PM |
When I see a relationship like that, I assume the guy is looking for a doormat who will clean his house and bear his children, and keep her mouth shut when he comes home late smelling of dick.
| by Anonymous | reply 74 | September 24, 2018 11:33 PM |
