This has always been an interesting pastime for me but seldom have I been as lascivious, obnoxious or aggressive conduct like the OP.
I appreciate beauty in both males and females and that has worked out for me sometimes and sometimes not.
I was once the subway. I found myself staring a hot guy across from me, who was in the open leg position. Handsome, almost to the point of beautiful.I thought he should model or be an actor. He caught me staring so I averted my eyes but continued to steal glances . Every time I looked in his direction he was staring at me. I assumed he was cruising me also, so I continued to occasionally look in his direction and we would lock eyes, but nothing lascivious on my part. (i.e. no crotch grabbing or sticking out tongue licking my lips).It continued for a while but he suddenly yelled' You got a problem?" and I thought this can't end well. Thankfully he got off at the next stop but ever since I have been very more conscious of not staring and certainly not assuming anything.
When I was in college I saw a new face in the cafeteria and found myself staring at him. He caught me, we made eye contact and he smiled. From then on this was our ritual .I nicknamed him "Eyes" as he had some of the most beautiful eyes ,grey with dark lashes even though he was an almost a greyish light blonde which made him very exotic looking.His best friend was one of the best looking guys on campus and built like a brick shit house . If he caught me even nodding in their direction ,he glared. I assumed they were boyfriends. This continued the entire school year.That summer school semester I was in town visiting friends and we were going to a Police concert. Andy Summers was doing a book signing at the local mall. I went and "Eyes" was also there. That was the day we progressed to "hello".
The following semester a friend who lived in his dorm was performing in their dorm "talent"show and I went with 2 friends."Eyes" ]and friend happened to be sitting directly behind us. After an Africa-American girl with an fro,wearing a belt which not went around her waist butt through her legs and who jumped off the stage while singing "Closely Watch Me Now." A terrible off-key "Memory" by the alleged voice major .My friend's off-key, plaintive rendition of the theme from ARTHUR. A partially deaf girl who signed, danced and lip synched with another girl to "Enough Is Enough" and told the "DJ " If duj mu-sici id too loud you can turn id down". By that point I was reduced staring at the ceiling trying to keep it together. When a guy with a guitar began singing "Don't Cry Daddy" (an Elvis song I had never heard) thelyrics struck me as hysterically funny:
Don't cry daddy Daddy, please don't cry Daddy, you've still got me and little Tommy Together we'll find a brand new mommy
I was chewing on my collar.
I was chewing on my collar.
"Eyes" apparently did know the song and leaned forward whispering the next lyric in my ear as I muttered "Stop!Stop! under my breathe.
I got to know him after he began dating a girl I became good friends after we were assigned the balcony scene from ROMEO & JULIET in acting class.We also made out once at a dance very hot and heavy. (She was sitting on my lap and I was straddling both sides of the fence at that time). However ,once they started dating my hots for him diminished...somewhat. I just focused on how lucky she was.
By that point he had moved into my dorm into a single room .One Saturday night a bunch of us were hanging with nothing to do when a guy with who was a diver suggested we go to his house and party since his parents were out of town. By the time I arrived there were about 20 people there, both sexes and even thought it was October some people were in the pool or part of a never ending rotation in and out of the outdoor jacuzzi or inside talking and drinking beer.All very tame.(No skinny dipping and all the guys were in boxer shorts or his extra swimsuits ."Eyes" was one of the first into the pool wearing a swimsuit but got out and did the towel
