Is Kissing the Homies Gay Meme

What is the meaning of this?

by Anonymousreply 2April 14, 2020 9:32 PM

Naughty boys being naughty. Imagine that.

by Anonymousreply 4April 14, 2020 9:57 PM

It’s just starting out as low-key homophobia, which could cause that generation to maybe be more accepting in the end. “OMG! Two guys kissing, NASTY!!! OMG they did it!”

by Anonymousreply 5April 14, 2020 10:04 PM

Cutest video I’ve seen all week!

by Anonymousreply 9April 30, 2020 9:28 PM

That guy “Mario”? is totally confused,

by Anonymousreply 10April 30, 2020 9:29 PM

You know some of them were thrilled.

by Anonymousreply 11April 30, 2020 9:30 PM

R5 - I think you've misread. And the key is the reaction. There is no one having a shocked or I-can't-believe-you-just-did-that,-bro reaction in any of these videos. I'm an older millennial and when I was younger I remember a lot of straight bro "gay chicken" videos in which straight dudes would challenge each other to "do something gay" like kiss each other. These videos, on the other hand, just seem to feature gen Z's showing that they're comfortable demonstrating affection to each other without questioning their orientation. Yes, it's a little "look at how progressive I am," but we were all like that when we were younger. They're being a bit precious about it, but I think it's rather sweet and it feels like the opposite of internalized homophobia (for once!)

by Anonymousreply 13April 30, 2020 9:37 PM

That guy was obnoxious...dude!

by Anonymousreply 17May 1, 2020 2:44 AM

I think it's cute. I'm just worried how much Chinese spyware is uploaded on my phone after watching these videos.

by Anonymousreply 19May 9, 2020 1:57 AM

Innocent versions of this.

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by Anonymousreply 23May 14, 2020 6:40 PM

Origin The first known post to use the phrase "kiss your homies goodnight" was tweeted January 20th, 2017 by user @goodstuffcris[1]

by Anonymousreply 24May 15, 2020 11:19 AM

I hope this is a change, but I think the few who would do this are not exactly in Hillbilly High School in Kentucky. If they tried it there, those guys would still get beat up after school.

by Anonymousreply 26May 15, 2020 11:24 AM

R13 you’re an old as fuck Millennial then, because as a class of ‘11 grad I for one do not recall it going down (down, in an earlier round) that way.

All I remember of being 14 is ‘str8/bicyurious emosexual <3’ Scene twinks ramming their tongues down each other’s throats and frotting and groping in public/broad daylight. The clubs and the classrooms of my salad days were equally full of boys figuring out what they liked. Guess you didn’t catch it. And these were no chaste pecks all lined up like cute duckies in a row as in OP post; see R23’s vintage clip for a little taste...

I think the curiously sexless & twee Zoomers are more at ease with and accepting of LGBT, but as others have said they infantilise the concept and make performing it into a condescending wokeness contest. I think part of that is the way they see gay/bi people presented in media and in fiction - conspicuously normal and at pains to be visible but vanilla or in no ways too salacious and tragic.

When Millennials explored gay activity it was with overmuch angst and bravado (and, yes, opposition from less tolerant kids & their families), but it was also with a lot of heat and a real dark curiosity. We were shown more tortured homoeroticism in its dying throes alongside an emergent idea of normalised homosexuality. Different times.

by Anonymousreply 27May 15, 2020 11:55 AM

Or, R27, you grew up in a different part of the country where there were different social norms from R13's home town

Occam's Razor

by Anonymousreply 28May 15, 2020 12:02 PM

2 beers 🍻 & a shot till anal

by Anonymousreply 30May 15, 2020 1:22 PM

"HomieHummers" are the "escalation".

by Anonymousreply 32June 5, 2020 8:48 PM

R19 can actually upload foreign spyware just by watching a video??

by Anonymousreply 37June 15, 2020 12:20 AM

I can't tell if the future is gay or just that a lot of gaylings use TikTok.

by Anonymousreply 39June 15, 2020 12:21 AM

It’s more “mostly straight” than “gay.”

by Anonymousreply 40June 15, 2020 12:25 AM

"Mostly straight" means you're LGBT, R40. Full stop.

by Anonymousreply 42June 15, 2020 12:41 AM

zzzzzzz.

Tame. Call me when they have progressed to doing lines and sucking each other off.

by Anonymousreply 43June 15, 2020 12:48 AM

Now that they have kissed, they should play the game, "Does sucking dick make you gay?"

by Anonymousreply 46June 29, 2020 9:08 PM

Bros sharing lollipops is a thing

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by Anonymousreply 47July 3, 2020 5:29 AM

Who would let their kid use this crap?

by Anonymousreply 50July 6, 2020 4:55 PM

It is one of the very biggest platforms on the Internet

by Anonymousreply 51July 6, 2020 4:56 PM

[quote] Bros sharing lollipops is a thing

So is mono . . .

Do parents not teach their children about mono anymore?

by Anonymousreply 52July 6, 2020 5:02 PM

They are grown ass men, not kids

by Anonymousreply 53July 6, 2020 7:32 PM

[quote] They are grown ass men, not kids

Men whose parents did not teach them about mono.

by Anonymousreply 54July 7, 2020 6:36 AM

That Mario dude is obnoxious.

by Anonymousreply 55July 7, 2020 7:03 AM

R27 "I for one do not recall it going down (down, in an earlier round)"

Marry me.

by Anonymousreply 57July 19, 2020 5:37 AM

So Much homoerotic role play

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by Anonymousreply 59August 1, 2020 2:42 PM

Old as fuck millennial here and r13s story sounds close to my experience.

by Anonymousreply 61August 15, 2020 2:03 AM

My homes says he only did that once in prison cuz he had to

by Anonymousreply 63September 4, 2020 6:26 AM

No, OP. They really aren't.

by Anonymousreply 68September 8, 2020 12:29 PM

What’s the best sub on reddit to show stuff like this that goes further?

by Anonymousreply 70September 9, 2020 12:52 PM

Lolll i'm here for the hot content but why is tik tok so annoying? I cringe through most of these even though the guys are cute.

I am 26 and I feel way too old for this.

by Anonymousreply 71September 9, 2020 2:55 PM

I am Generation X. If any guys had tried to do this in my high school they would have gotten the shit beat out of them by a bunch of macho bullies. Seeing these videos gives me hope for the future.

by Anonymousreply 76September 21, 2020 4:30 PM

Social media has accelerated and mainstreamed Brosexuality. So much male social media content is about kissing or flirting or admiring the homies.

by Anonymousreply 77September 21, 2020 4:55 PM

It's a joke. Just like "it's not gay if you wear socks".

by Anonymousreply 79September 21, 2020 6:40 PM

I was doing this decades ago.

by Anonymousreply 81September 21, 2020 7:41 PM

Straight men have always had weird ways of expressing their inner homosexuality. I'm not complaining though, the more hot straight guys want to act gay and kiss, grope, spank, fuck, etc other dudes because they think it's "funny" or whatever, the better. Their joke is my spank bank material, so bring it on.

by Anonymousreply 85September 25, 2020 1:36 AM

OT: but where’s the vid of the two guys who re-enacted this??

It was so cute - -

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by Anonymousreply 86September 25, 2020 1:39 AM

Stigma is literally the only thing keeping heterosexual men from exploring their gay side. Take that away and they're eager to, which is why straight men have found "joking" ways to dip their toes into the homosexuality pool. That way they can try it out and still say "no homo, it's just a joke".

by Anonymousreply 89September 25, 2020 1:54 AM

^^ oh. And do gay men who don’t want to have sex (or make out) with women just need to similarly loosen up?

by Anonymousreply 90September 25, 2020 2:18 AM

A lot of gay dudes flirt and make out with chicks

by Anonymousreply 91September 25, 2020 2:23 AM

Flirting... yes, everyone does that. With everyone. Consciously or unconsciously.

I don’t know gay men who make out with women, though.

Let’s hear from those that do, here.

by Anonymousreply 92September 25, 2020 2:29 AM

R92, I’m Not talking about old gay dudes

by Anonymousreply 93September 25, 2020 2:54 AM

Let’s hear more about your fantasy of how young, straight men secretly want to make out with you.

by Anonymousreply 94September 25, 2020 3:08 AM

Gay men who somehow believe that straight men are incapable of sexual experimentation never cease to amaze me. I know they're probably 80 year old virgins, but haven't you queens ever had an affair with a closeted man who was with a woman at the time? Or hell, even been to a glory hole or something similar? The world isn't black and white, darlings, and sometimes people say they're one thing when they're really another. If you spend your life thinking everything is set in stone you'll end up surprised.

by Anonymousreply 95September 25, 2020 7:46 AM

No r95. We aren’t immoral.

by Anonymousreply 96September 25, 2020 9:49 AM

R96 Well my apologies, Pollyanna, I'll ready my scarlet 'A' to wear when I have to make my trips into town.

by Anonymousreply 97September 25, 2020 1:23 PM

"Homie" is African American Vernacular English to denote a close friend or a fellow member of a youth gang.

by Anonymousreply 99October 6, 2020 8:14 PM

R100 Taking words from other cultures is Cultural Appropriation.

by Anonymousreply 102October 6, 2020 11:38 PM

Hip hop culture predominates among all youth

by Anonymousreply 103October 6, 2020 11:40 PM

Why are these videos so damn short

by Anonymousreply 104October 7, 2020 12:42 AM

TikTok is a platform for video snippets

by Anonymousreply 105October 7, 2020 12:47 AM

TikTok is a platform for attention whores.

Though I do love those clever montages on porn sites where some fan has juxtaposed their TikTok dancing on the left side of the screen and their nude orgasms on the right.

by Anonymousreply 106October 7, 2020 3:15 AM

I wish str8 macho grandpas were doing these tiktoks too so I could get excited about this fad

by Anonymousreply 108October 7, 2020 3:34 PM

Fetishes have their conswquences

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by Anonymousreply 110October 8, 2020 8:57 PM

Showing it to your the homies

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by Anonymousreply 111October 9, 2020 10:44 AM

Inside your homie’s guts

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by Anonymousreply 112October 9, 2020 12:29 PM

The homiesexual thing is getting hotter and bolder

by Anonymousreply 114October 9, 2020 5:40 PM

Why is it easier to talk dirty to the homies than to girls?

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by Anonymousreply 116October 12, 2020 1:24 PM

I hope this TikTok has the ability to be removed.

I know a spectacularly beautiful young queen who did some outrageous, sexily popular Youtube videos and within five years he became so embarrassed by them that he removed them all.

by Anonymousreply 117October 12, 2020 9:41 PM

Homiesexual role play is a thing

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by Anonymousreply 118October 16, 2020 2:16 AM

Straight men have always done shit like this, even pre-internet. I think it's because they're all secretly attracted to men and have no way to express that other than through this shit. That's how homoerotic things like hazing became such huge parts of masculine macho culture.

by Anonymousreply 119October 22, 2020 6:46 PM

No, this is at a much higher level

by Anonymousreply 120October 23, 2020 12:08 PM

I am not Gen Z and have clicked through this thread. My only reaction is this: maybe this will be a better adjusted generation. Men capable of displaying emotions will positively impact many aspects of society, not just greater acceptance of gays, but also women as equal partners in life. I am hopeful.

by Anonymousreply 123October 25, 2020 8:44 PM

R128, that guy is not conflicted, he wants that fine ass

by Anonymousreply 129November 7, 2020 10:41 PM

Is putting giant gonads in homies mouth gay? 🍒

by Anonymousreply 137March 29, 2021 2:17 AM

yes, it's completely new and recently discovered only within the last two generations.

nowhere in the world, no other place in time.

completely fresh and progressive.

curse all past generations for their homophobia and lack of sexual experimentation.

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by Anonymousreply 138March 29, 2021 2:26 AM

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