Gym Cruising

I have to confess that I have the worst gaydar in the world. Often, my straight married cousin will tell me that this or that guy or girl is checking me out and I am pretty much oblivious to it. In the past few years, I've been hitting the gym really hard, and appreciate the encouragement I get from the other guys in the gym. I work out in a suburban, village owned and operated gym, so this is not a real sophisticated urban setting where you would expect to see gay guys. Lots of cops, working out, local people, etc. I have noticed however, a couple of guys kind of flirting with me. One guy puts on a show when taking a shower, leaves his shower curtain open, washes his crotch for five minutes, then drops the soap and bends over to pick it up, giving me a nice view of his ass. He's a great looking guy, and we often talk about fishing and old cars, but little else. Another good looking guy was walking from the free weight area as I was walking to it, and he grabbed his balls and looked at me. I really take this as a compliment, but I am pretty much afraid to make any kind of move. I've been working out at this gym for twenty years, and would not like to leave. I wouldn;t like to have sex at the gym, but any thoughts on maybe how to break the ice a little? I really wouldn't mind fucking around with some of these guys.

a guy grabbed his balls while looking at you, another soaps up his ass in plain view. eh, it’s too late to try to turn this into an edward gorey poem.

Present hole, you crazy kid.

Just go to a sauna where you know everyone's there for sex and you won't end up with your head kicked in

Don't play at the gym, but if you think you're being cruised by these guys and would like to get together with them, why not ask them for a spot and strike up a conversation? Then you can see if they want to grab a post-workout protein shake.