"Dateline" spotlights murder of gay coal miner

Last night's "Dateline" was about the murder of Brad McGarry, an openly gay Ohio coal miner who friends called "larger than life." It's already on Peacock but won't be available to non-subscribers for another couple weeks. Here's the trailer.

I'm halfway through the episode and so far we've learned that he was a former hairdresser, had a younger lover with an airtight alibi (he was incarcerated), and friends admiringly called his home decor reminiscent of Cracker Barrel. There's a touching interview with his lesbian niece, who relied on him for emotional support when she was bullied as a teen. So far his supposedly straight best friend is the likeliest suspect.

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by Anonymousreply 32November 5, 2023 11:48 PM

His life sounds like my worst nightmare. I’d rather be straight.

by Anonymousreply 1October 27, 2023 4:58 PM

Awwww, he sounds like a great guy. RIP, sweet bear.

by Anonymousreply 3October 27, 2023 5:16 PM

RIP. Bears need justice too. I hope they find the prick.

by Anonymousreply 4October 27, 2023 5:18 PM

I'm guessing the guy crying in the preview did it

by Anonymousreply 5October 27, 2023 5:25 PM

Dennis Murphy doesn't come right out and say what R2 wrote, but that's the moral of the episode. In the end there's justice, and a friend laughs that Brad, in heaven, is probably happy to see himself on TV.

by Anonymousreply 6October 27, 2023 5:35 PM

You’d be right, R5. And he brought along his wife & teenaged stepdaughter to see the dead body of their close family friend.

by Anonymousreply 7October 27, 2023 5:45 PM

How many times do I have to say it? If you're going to kill someone don't bring your cell phone!

by Anonymousreply 8October 27, 2023 5:47 PM

And also, R8, don’t kill someone who lives across the street from the police chief.

by Anonymousreply 9October 27, 2023 5:50 PM

As an aside, not being from around these parts, the only thing I know about Cracker Barrel is that they had a don't hire a gay policy and there was a little bit of a backlash that made news enough for me to read about it, and from watching Youtube that have a you can park your "RV" around the back policy, the insides are a mystery to me!

by Anonymousreply 10October 27, 2023 5:55 PM

What was the motive for the killing?

by Anonymousreply 11October 27, 2023 6:05 PM

^It was suggested the victim was going to out his best friend/married lover.

by Anonymousreply 12October 27, 2023 6:09 PM

the inside of a Cracker Barrell is like a folksy Iowa country general store where one can buy candy, candles, wagon wheels or scythes.

by Anonymousreply 13October 27, 2023 6:19 PM

R12 the one bawling like a big old Mary? What a worthless piece of shit.

by Anonymousreply 14October 27, 2023 6:22 PM

But I thought chocolate tranny hookers were the biggest victims now. Oops!

by Anonymousreply 15October 27, 2023 6:26 PM

R15 wtf are you raging about and what does it have to do with this case?

Get off your fucking soapbox and trying to derail the thread asshole

by Anonymousreply 16October 27, 2023 6:33 PM

Reminds me of the Jesse Valencia case (also featured on Dateline) where an out gay college kid was killed by the married, closeted cop he was having an affair with

by Anonymousreply 18October 27, 2023 9:02 PM

[quote]the inside of a Cracker Barrell is like a folksy Iowa country general store where one can buy candy, candles, wagon wheels or scythes.

And (presumably) crackers.

by Anonymousreply 19October 27, 2023 9:04 PM

R18 I didn't know about that one.

The cop was sorta hot but....ugh, never ever fuck with cops. They're all nuts.

by Anonymousreply 20October 27, 2023 9:11 PM

Too bad Loretta Lynn never wrote a song about coal-mining bears

by Anonymousreply 21October 27, 2023 10:29 PM

She gave us Fist City. What more should gays expect?

by Anonymousreply 22October 28, 2023 2:31 AM

There should also be a lez loving and fighting song too. Like I Punched Her In The Cooter or something like that.

by Anonymousreply 23October 28, 2023 3:33 AM

[Quote]openly gay Ohio coal miner who friends called "larger than life."

So, he was a fattie?

by Anonymousreply 24October 28, 2023 4:11 AM

There should be a scripted mini-series on this case.

by Anonymousreply 26October 28, 2023 4:31 AM

^ Daniel Franzese IS coal miner bear

by Anonymousreply 27October 28, 2023 5:12 AM

You take 16 loads and what do you get?

by Anonymousreply 28October 28, 2023 5:12 AM

R28 Another day older, and a prescription for PreP!

by Anonymousreply 29October 28, 2023 6:13 AM

Fags always talk. You can't trust a fag or a woman they will always blow your cover.

by Anonymousreply 30October 28, 2023 4:24 PM

The revelation here could be seen from a million miles away. Obviously his "straight" best friend killed him—didn't want his wife to know he'd been pumping loads into his gay best friend for years. It is wild that affairs can escalate to murder, but it happens all the time. It is a sad story for everyone involved. The only highlight is that Brad got to live out the gay male fantasy of getting plowed by your quasi-hetero best friend. Definitely not worth dying over.

by Anonymousreply 31November 5, 2023 11:33 PM

Bearlene, Bearlene

I'm begging of you please don't kill my man.

by Anonymousreply 32November 5, 2023 11:48 PM

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